Are You Living in the Monkey House?

Posted on: March 6th, 2008 by Jeremy Schoemaker

In last weeks episode of Project Runway Tim Gun talked about the monkey house theory. Basically it boils down to this:

The first time you walk into a monkey house at the zoo you are like OMG WTF is that smell… and it hits you like a ton of bricks.

After a hour in the monkey house you somewhat forget about the smell and look around a bit.

If you live in the monkey house you never notice the smell again.

I see this problem all the time in the online world. People easily dismiss their customers/consumers complaints and critiques about their website. They rather try to defend it and explain why it is the way it is instead of fixing the problem… Because they live in the monkey house.

Post written by Jeremy Schoemaker

Hi I am Jeremy Schoemaker and ShoeMoney.com is my blog. 99% of the post here are done by me but you will see others occasionally make guest posts. This blog is fun to write but for my day job I run several online companies.

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54 Comments. What Say You?

  1. Real Cash Gifting
    November 7, 2008 at 10:05 am

    Very nice read, thanks!

  2. Chip
    March 13, 2008 at 3:30 am

    I don’t live in a monkey house. Mine smells nice.

  3. HardGeek
    March 11, 2008 at 8:45 pm

    LOL.. i am not

  4. Flimjo
    March 11, 2008 at 10:19 am

    I absolutely agree. The whole point of working with a customer is to get them what they want. I can’t stand dealing with employees (like government employees) who act as if I’m bothering them. If you’re in a service industry, the customer should be the central focus of your actions and decisions.

  5. Paid Surveys Reviewed
    March 10, 2008 at 6:57 pm

    A lot of people working in customer facing roles these days seem to act like the world owes them a living and the company/customer should be grateful that they are doing them a favor!

  6. natespost
    March 10, 2008 at 2:49 pm

    I’m not so much worried about my blog, but I just realized how bad my house smells.

  7. Flimjo
    March 10, 2008 at 12:14 pm

    Instead of living in the monkey house, people should realize that the customer is ALWAYS right.

  8. Erica DeWolf
    March 9, 2008 at 6:31 pm

    Great analogy! And great point…just because you’re used to it doesn’t mean everyone else is going to be as satisfied as you are.

  9. Low Cost Mugs
    March 9, 2008 at 10:36 am

    That certainly makes you look at your own work and check thats not what you are doing.

  10. Affiliate Confession
    March 7, 2008 at 11:21 pm

    If you live your life producing a sh*tty web site sometimes it’s hard to see how bad it really is. You are living in the monkey house.

  11. proinvestorsblog
    March 7, 2008 at 7:17 pm

    I am trying to break out of the money house, and take my blog out of the box and do something new

  12. Secrets Of Cash Gifting
    March 7, 2008 at 2:40 pm

    Great analogy, thats with all thing u just get used to over time to some things. It’s good to sometimes stop for a minute and hear what ppl, customers are telling to you and don’t keep be deaf for theirs complains etc.

  13. Tom M
    March 7, 2008 at 1:31 pm

    It stings a bit when you make a website or blog and ask for a review and people tear you down. I learned to get over it and take what is helpful and what is just being negative. I have learned a lot of what I know from my mistakes and other more qualified webmaster pointing them out.

    You just have to remember, nobody starts out on top unless they are born as a Trump or into a super rich family. Take the advice and critique and learn from it.

  14. Interwebhunt
    March 7, 2008 at 12:13 pm

    I guess the bottom line question would really be how emotionally attached are you to a project and do you have the necessary amount of heart to see it through to the end – be it a good or disastrous end.

  15. serge
    March 7, 2008 at 10:16 am

    not only monkeys but bananas too.

  16. serge
    March 7, 2008 at 10:08 am

    Just went to your site… I think it is a good site for what it is. So there :~}

  17. Infrared Fred
    March 7, 2008 at 10:03 am

    the art is to turn your customers into monkeys – but be prepared to be paid peanuts

  18. eMarketing Chat
    March 7, 2008 at 6:46 am

    And this should indeed be the opposite, listing to other people especially customers is what keeping your business alive at the end!

  19. Paid Surveys Reviewed
    March 7, 2008 at 5:38 am

    Can you smell something? :-)

    I think a lot of this is down to emotions. If you have a website(s) they are like your babies and you become attached to them and if someone criticises it you take it personally.

    Just my 2c worth.

  20. Bibokz
    March 6, 2008 at 11:24 pm

    I’m always open for every possibilities, being criticized could make you more even better, just learn every details wisely.

  21. jim
    March 6, 2008 at 11:03 pm

    Hmmmm that’s a good point, sometimes you put things off and put things off until it just becomes background noise, it takes a third person POV to really get your eyes back on those types of problems.

  22. Terry Tay
    March 6, 2008 at 7:34 pm

    I like to listen to people’s critiques and take into consideration what they have to say. It’s ok when it’s construtive criticism, but if people are just being negative for the purpose of being negative, then I’ll just flush that down the toilet with the monkey c#@%

    ~Terry

  23. Start Blogging
    March 6, 2008 at 4:49 pm

    Good point there. But, you watch Project Runway?

  24. Uzair
    March 6, 2008 at 4:04 pm

    Yup, nice analogy indeed.
    Wonder who thought about it.

  25. Derek
    March 6, 2008 at 3:25 pm

    It’s too much time spanking the monkey and not enough work that makes the crappy website in the first place….

  26. anty
    March 6, 2008 at 3:15 pm

    A very good analogy. I’m going to clean my monkey house :)

  27. Brick Marketing
    March 6, 2008 at 3:13 pm

    Yes, taking constructive criticism is always vital to the progression of one’s business. Gotta love the comparison between Project Runway and online businesses – simply great!

  28. Nullamatix
    March 6, 2008 at 2:45 pm

    I have to agree. This of course depends on the situation. If your Shoe selling old PCs on eBay, eehh, it’s not so important. But when you run say… Microsoft, or Google, listening to your customers is beneficial.

  29. Nullamatix
    March 6, 2008 at 2:44 pm

    Wow, I sure hope not. No one has mentioned such negative remarks about my sites, but if they did, I sure wouldn’t ignore or defend myself. Listening to visitors/customers is import to me.

  30. oakling
    March 6, 2008 at 2:42 pm

    Yeah – you have to leave the monkey house and come back in as a visitor, regularly. And not just because something might inherently stink, like scammers or spammers, but also because your needs and standards might change. I have noticed that I’ll make a site and be happy with how it looks and what it does at the time, but after a few months my vision for it has developed and the site’s needs have become clearer and suddenly I think, “What was I doing?! This needs to totally change!”

  31. Paul
    March 6, 2008 at 2:19 pm

    Great analogy. I agree I have found myself doing this at times. I am just in shock that you watch project runway.

  32. RacerX
    March 6, 2008 at 1:32 pm

    It is like asking someone if your baby is cute…no one wants to hear no. But it is a business not a plaything. If you don’t want critics, don’t run a business!

  33. RacerX
    March 6, 2008 at 12:59 pm

    Their is a difference between having an honest complaint about your site/service, and b!tching to just do so. THose are ok to see if there is any truth and move on from. Honest critical though can offer you the opportunity to expand. Ignore at your own peril. Someone said, they can gosomewhere else…hopefully here! I am happy to take your traffic :)

  34. Richard
    March 6, 2008 at 12:50 pm

    Tose monkeys need to be spanked for having a crappy website!

  35. Solo Programmer
    March 6, 2008 at 12:23 pm

    The customer is always right is just as incorrect as the customer is always wrong. Someone complaining about the smell doesn’t necessarily mean something stinks but if every time someone complained about the smell you give an objective sniff yourself you’d find they right at least some of the time.

    Problem people suck at giving constructive criticism and telling someone “you stink” will more likely get a defensive reaction. Maybe try “Hmm. It doesn’t quite smell like what I hoped it would”

  36. Affiliate Toolbox
    March 6, 2008 at 12:18 pm

    Smell? What smell? Smells like fresh air to me.

    Sometimes the monkey smell offers up a new perspective.

  37. Fiscal Musings
    March 6, 2008 at 11:58 am

    Great analogy. Your website only succeeds because of the visitors so why wouldn’t you listen to them?

  38. Dusty
    March 6, 2008 at 11:56 am

    Very interesting post Shoe, like the idea of the concept.

  39. Uzair
    March 6, 2008 at 11:51 am

    Yup, I often do that. I’m the only one that finds my websites to be pretty, i think.

    I’m a monkey. :)

  40. Affordable Ecommerce Web Hosting
    March 6, 2008 at 11:42 am

    I love your analogy, but it is true. I constantly see people asking for reviews but when they recieve one that isn’t talking about how great their website is, they get offended.

  41. Download 1000 Master Resell Right FREE
    March 6, 2008 at 11:35 am

    No I will leave the monkey house and go to palace :)

  42. Michael D
    March 6, 2008 at 11:21 am

    You look like a monkey and you smell like one too.

    I’d been living in the monkey house for more than a year. One of my sites has a really popular classified ad system that was getting targeted by 419 scammers regularly. We policed the site, but it wasn’t until someone e-mailed me saying they’d never use it again, after getting four scam attempts in the single day, that I did something about it.

    Hired some programmers and built in some real fancy systems to detect the most common kinds of scams. Took me away from about three days of regular work schedule but the incidence rate has gone down to almost 0.

    I should’ve gotten rid of that monkey stank a long time ago.

  43. Stephan Miller
    March 6, 2008 at 11:18 am

    Maybe, along with Kurt Vonnegut.

  44. jtGraphic
    March 6, 2008 at 11:17 am

    I think everyone totally missed the point. Maybe I missed the point. I dunno. I recently had this debate with a bunch of Linux boys about how Linux isn’t “quite there” for the user experience. Computer gurus who’ve been in the monkey house a while are okay with it, but people that just showed up on the scene have no idea what that smell is. I think Mac’s user experience smells of roses :-P

  45. Syed Balkhi
    March 6, 2008 at 11:06 am

    while it is a good theory, but it doesn’t work in my mind. I think if i provide the service with my best effort, and the customer have some problem they can take it to someone else because i dont have time for it. Believe it or not some of the customers are really P.I.T.A …. I would rather live in my monkey house :p

  46. Mark
    March 6, 2008 at 11:06 am

    Not just complaints… this can be related on several levels, to several metrics of a site, both Good & Bad! Complaints are just one area that gets noticed (like the post states)

    How about the GOOD things on a site that are eventually taken for granted and not replicated? Seems to me the smell would be similar…

    If it stinks – do something about it! If it smells like candy and roses, AND people LIKE it, well… seems that should be expoited a bit further!

    Good post Jeremy – actually made me think outside the box!

    Mark

  47. ShoeMoney
    March 6, 2008 at 10:59 am

    Hey putting a lot of words in my mouth their chief… this was a quote from a tv show. Its something to think about.

    I would rather you make up your own mind about if its important. I am just throwing it out there.

  48. Trent Brownrigg
    March 6, 2008 at 10:57 am

    Very good point. Customer complaints are important for improving your business. If you listen to them to make your business better as opposed to defending yourself, you will be better in the end.

  49. Blackbeard
    March 6, 2008 at 10:51 am

    Shoe, didn’t you tell us not so long ago that you thought customer complaints and soforth were bogus and you didn’t care? Now you’re saying they’re super important? What gives?

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